Ashanti has recently opened up about her journey into motherhood, offering a heartfelt glimpse into how this new chapter has transformed her life.
In an exclusive interview with Entertainment Tonight, the R&B sensation shared her emotional labour experience.
ASHANTI ON MOTHERHOOD
She opened up about the profound changes motherhood has brought, and the joys of parenting alongside her husband, rapper Nelly.
The star’s life took an unexpected yet joyous turn on 18 July when she welcomed her first child, a baby boy named Kareem Kenkaide Haynes.
ASHANTI ON NELLY
Reflecting on the moment, Ashanti described the birth as “such an amazing, incredible feeling.”
The singer revealed that her son arrived earlier than expected. This prompted Nelly to make a last-minute dash to be by her side.
“He came a little early, and dad had to fly in last minute — which was awesome,” she said. Nelly’s timing was impeccable, as he arrived just in time for the birth.
ASHANTI THE NEW MUM
Ashanti, who had always envisioned herself married with children, couldn’t hold back her tears when she first saw her baby’s face.
“It was just so emotional and spiritual at the same time,” she recalled.
The new mum admitted that while she had always dreamed of this moment, experiencing it with her husband made it even more surreal.
“This is your person, this is your purpose… it was such an electrifying feeling,” she explained. This emphasised the deep connection between her, Nelly, and their son.
DEVOTION TO FAMILY
Motherhood has brought significant changes to Ashanti’s life, and she candidly spoke about how her priorities have shifted.
“My son definitely dictates everything. Like, he is priority over all,” she shared.
The singer, known for her strong sense of independence, now finds herself entirely devoted to her little boy.
“It’s this overwhelming feeling of love and admiration… this little boy has my entire soul,” she added.
SPECIAL MOMENTS
Parenting alongside Nelly has been an equally transformative experience for Ashanti.
She described it as “really hard to describe in words.”
Yet, one moment that stands out is when their son, affectionately called “KK,” was struggling to sleep in the hospital.
Ashanti, feeling helpless, passed the baby to Nelly, according to Essence.
“He sits down, starts singing, and he’s cradling him… and now he’s smiling and quiet,” she recalled.
A BLESSING
The sight of Nelly soothing their son left Ashanti in awe of his natural paternal instincts, according to E News.
Nelly also shared his thoughts on parenting with Ashanti, expressing his admiration for her as a mother.
“Having kids is always a blessing. And seeing how dope Ashanti is as a mother is awesome,” he said.
Ashanti’s story resonates as a tale of love, unexpected turns, and the joys of family.
JOYS OF FAMILY
Her advice to new and expecting mothers? Trust your instincts and maintain a balance.
“Your child absolutely feels your energy, and make sure the baby feels secure and safe. And you have to have space for you as well,” she advised, reminding mums to nurture themselves too.
As Ashanti embraces motherhood, her journey is a testament to the power of love, the magic of music, and the importance of family.