SK Khoza took to his social media to open up on some of the things he need to fix in his relationship with Mandy Hlongwane.
The two have been together for quite some time now and SK needs to fix so many things for the sake of his lover.
He said he was willing to admit he’s wrong and revealed how bottling up his emotions had brought him to a point where he unknowingly was “emotionally abusive” towards his partner.
The star said most times when he is addressing so many issues, he does not do it in a calm manner.
“Keeping things that break your spirit and hurt you inside is not always a good thing. I have come to realise that I have done so and I ended up not realising that I was taking it out on my fiancée Mandy Hlongwane … whenever I do talk about what is affecting me I would not address it in a calm manner and in turn I didn’t see that I was hurting her and in a way I was being emotionally abusive towards her,” he wrote.
“She has made me understand that just because I don’t physically abuse her, I was doing so with my words and I want to speak out and say that I’m sorry I didn’t address my problems and allowed them to overpower me.”
Sthembiso said he is now working towards bettering himself and is committed to being candid about his journey and opening up.
“Emotional abuse is really not good, especially because it breaks the other person in a serious way. I am now working on myself and I am committed to opening up, communicating more, and talking about the things that affect me. I am working on being a better person and partner.”